I am a member of the Recess for DCPS Facebook page and there was a heartbreaking post with equaly heartbreaking comments today. I have deleted the names of the parents but I don't think that lessens the impact.
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I just sent this email to my daughter's principal:
"Is there is a reason students are not allowed to talk before school in the Second Grade hallway? My child tells me they are constantly berated for talking and told they must sit quietly and read. Our kids have so few opportunities during the school day for critical socialization. What harm is there in chatting with friends before school has begun? Last year she sat in the multipurpose room before the bell, and I know they could talk there. In Kindergarten they sat in the hallway outside of the classrooms and were allowed to read or talk before the bell. I am not comfortable with the expectation students sit silently prior to school. If there is some new policy in place I would ask it be revisited. If there is not, I would ask the staff be instructed to allow socialization at a reasonable level of noise."
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There is no doubt the art of conversation is dying. Unfortunately so are manners. I agree children should be allowed to converse in the mornings. I do think as usual educators are trying to capitalize on the little time they have to teach all that is expected. Parents have a role in teaching children how to discuss issues and talk politely to others. I have to wonder, are these the same parents who make excuses when their child misbehaves? There is a norm for school behavior that is important to the overall development of children and the understanding that there is a place and time for yelling and running around, but that is not in an academic setting. I have to wonder if these are the same parents who blog and text while out to dinner, or give their child a movie to watch in the car, or keep them inside all weekend, or keep them only in structured activities? We all have a part in raising our children. A teacher's part is in the classroom and does include listening and speaking. Children will be what we teach them to be and their biggest influence comes from the same sex parent. So parents, calmly tell your administrators what you would like to see and present solutions instead of problems and complaints. We are listening.
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